Your guy will feel guilty that your kids have to scram when he’s around, and you’ll feel guilty about hiding your pride and joy!
A younger man wants to feel that you’re approaching the concept of dating younger men from a positive place.
He wants to feel that you see what is special about him, and not just how he is the opposite of everybody else you’ve dated.
After publishing the article “The Truth About Dating In Japan As A Foreigner” a lot of female readers asked me what it’s like to date a Japanese guy.
Most of us are familiar with the biblical account of the fallen angels found in Genesis 6.
These angels who “left their first estate” produced gigantic, hybrid offspring with human women, men of renown as Scripture calls them. Where is the evidence of these giants who made the Israelites feel like “grasshoppers” when they entered the Promised Land?
Trying to dress like you’re half your age makes you look twice your age.“I moved to Japan when I was 18 and have been dating Asian guys ever since. I often hear girls who long for Asian boyfriends say that Western guys are dogs, and I can confidently say that Asian men are no different.Just like with any place you go, you have your good guys and your bad guys.” “During my first couple of years here, I encountered a lot of guys whose interest in me came purely from the fact that I was foreign.“There are a lot of stereotypes and some girls use them for their own personal gain.Those that stand true to who they are seem to be the ones who find solid relationships. What we consider common sense is very different.” “When I first started dating my husband he was embarrassed to hold hands with me in public.So long as you see your age as an advantage, so will your cub.But he can smell it the second you feel insecure about your age, and being catty to younger women is the first symptom. And to a cub, that type of body isn’t a turn off—it’s different and exciting.In my case, for instance, men are quick to bring up the topic of bikinis and love hotels the minute I mention I’m Latina. For a long while, after the loss of someone I planned on spending my entire life with, I gave in to that stereotype and was unable to get involved in a serious relationship.” “Now, I’m in a happy relationship with an older man who doesn’t speak a lick of English or Spanish, which is my main language. For one, I’m very passionate in my way of moving and speaking, and I sometimes forget to respect personal space. This applied more in Japan than when we were in England, although now he seems completely okay with it.In general, Japanese men are likely to be embarrassed about showing affection in public – even things like putting an arm around someone’s shoulders, or hugging, never mind kissing.Many seemed to be interested in cultural differences and resulting problems in the relationship between a foreign woman and a Japanese man.Although I’ve been in Japan for 6 years now, I totally lack that kind of experience.