Disclaimer The Content is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. It’s a lot of fun, however, as a guy, I have realized that though men can be as attractive, confident and charming as ever, they still may get nowhere.A guy can throw his best game, have all the money in the world, wear all the best clothes and have a healthy social life, but ultimately, the woman decides. Women may not like it when guys check them out, but if they’re wearing tight-fitting dresses and subsequently complain about the attention they draw, it comes across as extremely naive, stupid or both.We have only to stand in a grocery store line to see over and over again the dramas of this infidelity.Sometimes we stay, but the price we pay is we deaden our aliveness and we cross paths with our partner only in that small corner of connection that does not stir up differences.What am I doing every day that shuts the door of my heart and pushes my beloved out?
This stage begins when our partner begins to disappoint us, when he/she begins to not be who I thought they were and needed them to be.
What, essentially, is this state of falling in love? Our boundaries have also opened and what we "love" about our partner is now felt as part of our own makeup. While it lasts, we are at peace with all that is arising in the moment and we don't need anything to be other than it is. We need to also live in this human world with all of its limitations, disappointments and difficulties.
It is a time when our ego boundaries expand and we move beyond our limited sense of self to taste the Divine. We need to balance the expansiveness of our Bliss with the grounding of the Earth Realm.
have in the discord and unhappiness of my relationship?
How am I encrusted in a point of view that sees my partner, not as my ally, but as the enemy?