If you’re into music, wear some headphones round your neck.
Also, make sure the location suits your personality.
It’s descriptive, easy to remember and will give them something to talk about in their opening email if need be.
Make your username: ● Clear ● Easy to remember ● Appealing to the people you want to attract ● Positive ● Funny, creative or silly, if possible Avoid names which include numbers or text talk (like Just Where UWant Me or Lets B2gether).
Stop taking half-naked photos of yourself in the bathroom mirror. And seeing a toilet, dirty shower, and you standing in a 4' x 6' box is mos def not a turn on. Your profile should not have a disclaimer about what you don't want.
Now, if you're laid out in a hot tub in a beautiful bathroom with a view of the ocean behind it, that's a different story. For goodness sake, what kind of lazy introduction is that? Taking pix of yourself on the way to being drunk off your ass is not inspiring. You might be God's gift to the party girl, but how are you with a real woman, outside the bar? Do you really want to see all the men I've been with before? If you find yourself listing the faults of all your exes, get counseling or coaching. And chances are, you've been the source of all that drama you claim you don't want. Please have photos that were taken at least within the past year or two.
It also gives the message that you’re serious about looking for love online. You are selling your lifestyle, and you want it to seem as attractive and aspirational to people as possible.
Using high-quality images, as opposed to ones which are poorly lit, blurry and/or pixelated, will immediately show people that you value yourself and are willing to invest in yourself.
No matter what your excuse is for not writing more, it's lame and a turn off.
I can't tell you how many women just don't respond to guys who just write one word.
Bad pictures, poorly written profiles, and misleading information make it frustrating or annoying to sort effectively. If you want to be a man in your online dating profile and truly use the site(s) to attract the woman of your dreams, here are some suggestions. Yes, some idiot actually sent that to me as a text.
For example, the guy who "wants a relationship" but by all other factors in his profile is clearly looking for a hookup. Actually, even if you're on the site just to date, trust me, gentlemen, you'll have better results if you make these few minor adjustments: 1.